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Not long ago, one of the members of my health club poked her
head in my office for some advice. Linda was a 46 year old
mother of two, and she had been a member for over a year.
She had been working out sporadically, with (not
surprisingly) sporadic results. On that particular day, she
seemed to have enthusiasm and a twinkle in her eye that I
hadn’t seen before.
"I want to enter a before and after fitness contest
called the “12 week body transformation challenge." I could
win money and prizes and even get my picture in a magazine."
“I want to lose THIS”, she continued, as she grabbed the
body fat on her stomach. “Do you think it’s a good idea?”
Linda was not “obese,” she just had the typical “moderate
roll” of abdominal fat and a little bit of thigh/hip fat
that many forty-something females struggle with.
“I think it’s a great idea” I reassured her.
“Competitions are great for motivation. When you have a
deadline and you dangle a “carrot”
like that prize money in front of you, it can keep you
focused and more motivated than ever.”
Linda was eager and rarin’ to go. “Will you help me? I
have this enrollment kit and I need my body fat measured.”
“No problem,” I said as I pulled out my Skyndex fat
caliper, which is used to measure body fat percentage with a
“pinch an inch” test.
When I finished, I read the results from the caliper
display: “Twenty-seven percent. Room for improvement, but
not bad; it’s about average for your age group.”
She wasn’t overjoyed at being ‘average’. “Yeah, but it's
not good either. Look at THIS,” she complained as again she
grabbed a handful of stomach fat. “I want to get my body fat
down to 19%, I heard that was a good level.”
I agreed that 19% was a great goal, but it would take a
lot of work because average fat loss is usually about a half
a percent a week, or six percent in twelve weeks. Her goal,
to lose eight percent in twelve weeks was ambitious.
She smiled and insisted, “I’m a hard worker. I can do it”
Well, indeed she was and indeed she did. She was a
machine! Not only did she never miss a day in the gym, she
trained HARD. Whenever I left my office and took a stroll
through the gym, she was up there pumping away with
everything she had. She told me her diet was the strictest
it had ever been in her life and she didn't cheat at all. I
believed her. And it started to show, quickly.
Each week she popped into my office to have her body fat
measured again, and each week it went down, down, down.
Consistently she lost three quarters of a percent per week –
well above the average rate of fat loss – and on two
separate occasions, I recall her losing a full one percent
body fat in just seven days.
Someone conservative might have said she was
overtraining, but when we weighed her and calculated her
lean body mass, we saw that she hadn’t lost ANY muscle –
only fat. Her results were simply exceptional!
She was ecstatic, and needless to say, her success bred
more success and she kept after it like a hungry tiger for
the full twelve weeks.
On week twelve, day seven, she showed up in my office for
her final weigh-in and body fat measurement. She was wearing
a pair of formerly tight blue jeans and they were FALLING
OFF HER! “Look, look, look,” she repeated giddily as she
tugged at her waistband, which was now several inches too
large.
As I took her body fat, I have to say, I was impressed.
She hadn’t just lost a little fat, she was “RIPPED!”
During week twelve she dropped from 27% to 17% body fat,
for a grand total of 10% body fat lost. She surpassed her
goal of 19% by two percent. I was now even more impressed,
because I had only seen a handful of people lose that much
body fat in three
months.
You should have seen her! She started hopping up and down
for joy like she was on a pogo stick! She was beaming…
grinning from ear to ear! She practically knocked me over as
she jumped up and gave me a hug – “Thank you, thank you,
thank you!”
“Don’t thank me,” I said, “You did it, I just measured
your body fat.”
She thanked me again anyway and then said she had to go
have her
“after” pictures taken. Then something very, very strange
happened. She stopped coming to the gym. Her "disappearance"
was so abrupt, I was worried and I called her. She never
picked up, so I just left messages.
No return phone call.
It was about four months later when I finally saw Linda
again. The giddy smile was gone, replaced with a sullen
face, a droopy posture and a big sigh when I said hello and
asked where she’d been.
“I stopped working out after the contest... and I didn’t
even win.”
“You looked like a winner to me, no matter what place you
came in” I insisted, “but why did you stop, you were doing
so well!”
“I don’t know, I blew my diet and then just completely
lost my motivation. Now look at me, my weight is right back
where I started and I don’t even want to know my body fat.”
“Well, I'm glad to see you back in here again. Write down
some new goals for yourself and remember to think long term
too. Fitness isn’t a just 12 week program you know, it’s a
lifestyle - you have to do it every day - like... forever.”
She nodded her head and finished her workout, still with
that defeated look on her face. Unfortunately, she never
again come anywhere near the condition she achieved for that
competition, and for the rest of the time she was a member
at our club, she slipped right back into the sporadic
workout pattern.
Linda was not an isolated case. I’ve seen the same thing
happen with countless men and women of all ages and fitness
levels from beginners to competitive bodybuilders. In fact,
it happens to millions of people who “go on” diets, lose a
lot of weight, then “go off” the diet and gain the weight
right back.
What causes people to burn so brightly with enthusiasm
and motivation and then burn out just as quickly? Why do so
many people succeed brilliantly in the short term but fail
95 out of 100 times in the long term? Why do so many people
reach their fitness goals but struggle to maintain them?
The answer is simple: Health and fitness is for life, not
for "12 weeks."
You can avoid the on and off, yo-yo cycle of fitness ups
and downs. You can get in great shape and stay in great
shape. You can even get in shape and keep getting in better
and better shape year after year, but it's going to take a
very different philosophy than most people subscribe to. The
seven tips below will guide you.
These guidelines are quite contrary to the quick fix
philosophies prevailing in the weight loss and fitness world
today. Applying them will take patience, discipline and
dedication. But remember, the only thing worse than getting
no results is getting great results and losing them.
1) Don’t “go on” diets.
When you “go on” a diet, the underlying assumption is
that at some point you have to “go off” it. This isn’t just
semantics, it’s the primary reason most diets fail. By
definition, a “diet” is a temporary and often drastic change
in your eating behaviors and/or a severe restriction of
calories or food, which is ultimately, not maintainable. If
you reach your goal, the diet is officially “over” and then
you "go off" (returning to the way you used to eat). Health
and fitness is not temporary; it’s not a “diet.” It’s
something you do every day of your life. Unless
you approach nutrition from a “habits” and “lifestyle”
perspective, you’re doomed from the start.
2) Eat the same foods all year round.
Permanent fat loss is best achieved by eating mostly the
same types of foods all year round. Naturally, you should
include a wide variety of healthy foods so you get the full
spectrum of nutrients you need, but there should be
consistency, month in, month out. When you want to lose fat,
there’s no dramatic change necessary - you don’t need to eat
totally different foods - it’s a simple matter of eating
less of those same healthy foods and exercising more.
3) Have a plan for easing into maintenance.
Let’s face it – sometimes a nutrition program needs to be
more strict than usual. For example, peaking for a
bodybuilding or fitness contest requires an extremely
strict regimen that’s different than the rest of the year.
As a rule, the stricter your nutrition program, the more
time you must allow for a slow, disciplined transition into
maintenance. Failure to plan for a gradual transition will
almost always result in bingeing and a very rapid, hard fall
"off the wagon."
4) Focus on changing daily behaviors and habits one or
two at a time.
Rather than making huge, multiple changes all at once,
focus on changing one or two habits/behaviors at a time.
Most psychologists agree that it takes about 21 days of
consistent effort to replace an old bad habit with a new
positive one. As you master each habit, and it becomes as
ingrained into your daily life as brushing your teeth, then
you simply move on to the next one. That would be at least
17 new habits per year. Can you imagine the impact that
would have on your health and your life? This approach
requires a lot of patience, but the results are a lot more
permanent than if you try to change everything in one fell
swoop. This is also the least intimidating way for a
beginner to start making some health-improving lifestyle
changes.
5) Make goal setting a lifelong habit.
Goal setting is not a one-time event, it’s a process
that never ends. For example, if you have a 12 week goal to
lose 6% bodyfat, what are you going to do after you achieve
it? Lose even more fat? Gain muscle? Maintain? What's next?
On week 13, day 1, if you have no direction and nothing to
keep you going, you’ll have nothing to keep you from
slipping back into old patterns. Every time you achieve a
goal, you must set another one. Having daily and weekly
short term goals means that you are literally setting goals
continuously and never stopping.
6) Allow a reasonable time frame to reach your goal.
It's important to set deadlines for your fitness and
weight loss goals. It's also important to set ambitious
goals, but you must allow a reasonable time frame for
achieving them. Time pressure is often the motivating force
that helps people get in the best shape of their lives. But
when the deadline is unrealistic for a particular goal (like
30 pounds in 30 days), then crash dieting or other extreme
measures are often taken to get there before the bell. The
more rapidly you lose weight, the more likely you are to
lose muscle and the faster the weight will come right back
on afterwards. Start sooner. Don't wait until mid-May to
think about looking good for summer.
7) Extend your time perspective.
Successful people in every field always share one common
character trait: Long term time perspective. Some of the
most successful Japanese technology and manufacturing
companies have 100 year and even 250-year business plans. If
you want to be successful in maintaining high levels of
fitness, you must set long term goals: One year, Ten years,
Even fifty years! You also must consider the long term
consequences of using any "radical" diet, training method or
ergogenic aid. The people who had it but lost it are usually
the ones who failed to think long term or acknowledge future
consequences. It's easy for a 21 year old to live only for
today, and it may even see ridiculous to set 25 year goals,
but consider this: I've never met a 40 or 50 year old who
didn't care about his or her health and appearance, but I
have met 40 or 50 year olds who regretted not caring 25
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