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If you’re a smoker, you’re probably sick to death of the
anti-cigarette lobby spinning out the same old lines about
how you’re damaging your body and health. You’re not an
idiot, you know all these facts. Heck, you’d be hard-pressed
not to know the facts given that you have a big warning sign
blasted in your face every time you look at a packet of
cigarettes. You know that
smoking can cause infertility, lung cancer, emphysema and
heart disease. So why do the anti-smoking lobby
continue to throw out the same warnings? I suppose their
theory is that if you hear the facts enough times, then
eventually it will profoundly hit home. But if you’re still
smoking, then obviously their tactics are failing. As a
former cigarette addict myself, I can completely empathise
with the smoker’s frustration. How can these people, who in
all likelihood have never experienced the addiction of
tobacco, see fit to lecture them? “Why stop smoking” is a
question which is almost always met with the health answer,
but for reasons I will shortly expand on, this is entirely
the wrong question to present the smoker with.
Every smoker knows that the tobacco habit is disastrous
for their health. That’s a given, but obviously they
continue to smoke. This is where anti-smokers run out of
ideas and become dumbfounded, because they cannot see past
the health issue. However, all smokers and former smokers
know that the humble cigarette provides a hundred daily
uses. We feel that smoking alleviates anxiety, tastes good
after meals, acts as a time-passer during conversations and
nights out, a trigger for creativity or meditation. There
truly is an abundance of reasons why smokers continue what
they do.
It is these “reasons” that compel the smoker to continue
the habit, and this is what health campaigners fail to
comprehend. The secret is this: smokers do not need reasons
to stop, they need fewer reasons to continue.
If the smoker can debunk the reasons they use to persist
with cigarettes, then they will have increasingly less
desire to actually smoke. “Why stop smoking” is not the
question the smoker should be asking themselves, but rather
“Why continue smoking?”. The smoker needs to make a list of
the reasons why they feel smoking is an essential part of
their daily lives, and then carefully assess - and debunk -
each reason one at a time.
It is absolutely imperative to understand this crucial
difference. The smoker will never be pushed into backing
down, and nor should they have to be. Smokers are human, yet
are treated and made to feel like second-class citizens. The
health argument simply isn’t a heavy enough weight to tip
the scales against all the other reasons the smoker has to
continue the habit. If the smoker wishes to quit, they must
work backwards, asking themselves how they have changed
since they first started the habit and questioning what
smoking has really done for them. If the smoker can do this,
their chances of finally beating the habit are likely to
increase tenfold.
Let’s assess some of the reasons why we choose to
continue to smoke, and what a cessation can do for us.
Firstly, there is the issue of
procrastination. Many smokers believe that cigarettes
provide bursts of creativity, or even act as a mild sedative
during times of anxiety. The truth is that smoking clogs up
the cardiovascular system and, consequently, smokers finds
themselves constantly short of breath and sapped of all
energy. This lack of energy in turn is precisely what can
encourage procrastination.
Secondly, there is the belief we need cigarettes as a
social prop. This argument is one of the hardest to debunk,
but there are a few good reasons we can look at. For
starters, we all have our male role models, and it’s very
unlikely they smoke. Does their lack of smoking status make
them any less cool, appealing or aspirational? Hardly. If
anything, it strengthens their status as a role model. Then
we can simply look about us and see the vast majority of
people enjoying their socialising without the need to smoke;
if they can do it, then surely the smoker can too.
Finally, we can look at the wind of change blowing
through our society - public smoking bans are being applied
all over the west, and it’s just a matter of time before
smoking officially becomes an anti-smoking habit. Whereas
smoking may have looked trendy a few decades ago, it will
simply look like the resort of the weak-willed in a few
months when smokers are huddled outside bars and pubs in all
weather having a smoke.
Those are just two “smoking reasons” which have been
un-winded with a few minutes of thought. If the smoker can
spend several hours assessing their apparent need to smoke,
then they will probably come up with dozens more legitimate
questions as to why they should stop smoking. Quitting
smoking is such a wonderful gift for the individual - one
can re-claim health, fitness, taste, money and pride in a
very short period of time. No firm resolutions have to be
made, but smokers should allow themselves to investigate
what life would be like on the other side |